Showing posts with label Domestic Violence Homicide Review. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence Homicide Review. Show all posts

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Review: Broken Bonds Catalysts For Family Disputes



Helen Gregory begins the article by summarizing the few public murders associated with Family courts omitting any reference whatsoever to data collected by the domestic violence homicide team or any other credible research.

She even went further to override consistent empirical research that supports that a majority of homicides linked to family court proceedings are not out of propriety, revenge or hatred. She refers to another male supremacy campaigner who also happens to a psychologist. Not a professor or a researcher, just a local psychologist prepared to support the same rhetoric.
He claims that the reason behind homicides is because men feel helpless, as though we should sympathize with the murderer above the murdered. It kind of brings a new meaning to the phrase, "The dead don't tell tales". Not only do they tell no tales, but the death they never wanted, brought shorter than the natural course but how it ended was all in vein. One can delve into politics, philosophy, science and introduce theories that become popular and novice in its own merit, but if its not logical - then its a complete waste of time. What is logical about comparing the value of a life over needing to hierarchy one mans urges over the plight of a child or mother whose life is at risk.

No different than the oil companies who hired people with a degree to battle in the academia arena a truth that was in plain sight: Climate Change. They were just as selective with statistics as these people are. It was quite a simple formula that kept the truth at bay for many years: Just provide data from five years instead of fifty and shout it out as loud as you can so that the truth cannot be heard. This is how these recent deaths occurred. Its because a bunch of abusers collaborated to fight for laws so that they can continue to abuse without challenge and anyone who knew would turn a blind eye. There is quite a history on these groups linking to actual abusers that have been found out and given that they wish to fight against laws that protect children from family violence, it is bizarre that three years later, they got exactly what they wanted at the cost of life.

Then there is Carl Boyd, a barrister who is stretching beyond his credentials in the realm of psychology, sociology and psychiatry to reaffirm the notion that parents kill due to lack of control. Its either Law Degrees are offering far more than promised these days or the writer was really scraping the bottom of the barrel to find a bunch of misogynist's who had some type of title. Any title, it seems - but wrong context. Let me repeat that phrase again, "Lack of control". How much power does one need? So, let me get this straight, should we sympathize with murders, simply because they were distressed? Never mind the turmoil their victims would have gone through until their last breath. I wonder if the last lingering thought of the children these fathers killed were, "Why daddy? Why did you do this?". You know they say that suicide is selfish, yet there is obviously not enough attributed to how selfish taking away another's life is. According to this article, we should feel sorry for them, forget the kids, give them what they wanted and pray that they don't kill the children because they began to want more or they had another urge. Boyd also claims that child homicides and familicide's are predictable, that they occur within 6 months to 1 year. Thats a dangerous assumption, considering that Arthur Freeman's killing took a lot longer than that and many other killings happened even up to seven years in the making after separation.

Greg Andresen, where do I start...this troll has been around attacking womens experience of domestic violence for years. Its not exactly an intelligent strategy, as you can quite clearly see that first he denies womens experience of violence and then goes on to purport that men are far more likely to be victimized. One only has to look at Mens health and realize that its nothing to do with mens health. Where is the information about prostate cancer or any other medical issues affecting men? Carl Boyd the camouflages the issue completely by stating that mothers making allegations of violence or child abuse as the issue. Whilst he uses the term "false", I am dubious on how a barrister with such emotive views tilted towards men would be able to reach a legible conclusion.

The article drags on to promote dad's in distress that has received yet another million dollars to fund unqualified counselors facilitating groups of men discussing child custody issues. Just as the shared parenting bill came into affect, family violence workers were instructed not to discuss any issues or grievances with their clients as it might be considered, "coaching". The reason why there are few groups supporting women going through the family court is because of section 121 of the Family Law act and a group is also considered a "public forum". One may wonder where the real bias is.

In no place in the article was there a consideration for the victims they blamed or the mothers they accused or any real credibility to the rhetoric.

Rating:
Propaganda Level: 100%
Misogynous level: 100%
Intelligence level: -0.05%
Best use for this article: kitty litter

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

How Angry Men's Groups Exploit Grieving Families

A lot of murders go unreported or lack details that would impinge on the Men's rights rhetoric. I cannot speak for the families that have suffered directly their own loss, I can only recognise the unwritten code of what is and isn't appropriate to do in the wake of mourning. I can say that being decent, respectful and compassionate is an expectation in any grieving circumstances.

Men's Groups have relied upon success at the detriment of women and children. They were ruthless in their relentless pursuit to own the lives and deaths of children and their mothers without what they consider "interference of government". Current family court laws are a deep reflection of that. The news reports, political alliances of some journalists and the overzealous power of the courts to choose what is reported, what isn't and most importantly how they are reported. Even some scholarly work is left out of family matters.

It was only in the past two years that NSW implemented a domestic violence homicide review board and shortly after that men's rights groups all of a sudden began to interfere with NSW legislation on how homicides are investigated introducing clauses where Families have more power to decide how the investigations are conducted under the guise of "male suicide" . "Families" includes the partner and thus defeats investigating deaths characterised by non forensic investigation as "unsuspecting" including death by strangulation. Therefore, in short Husbands have the legal authority to murder their wives or children as long as it is in a way that is not openly suspicious. They have the legal authority to bar forensic investigation that would otherwise detect deeper findings such as strangulation.

In cases where the media is able to or does report deaths related to family violence, men's groups attempt to either twist the circumstances to suit their agenda, exaggerating findings or argue that the death was irrelevant, especially when the death clearly demonstrates that their agenda would draw upon more cases if their agenda was achieved.

Indecency

On the Forum discussion for Four corners on a murder-suicide where there was a history of domestic violence and the Family Court awarded unsupervised time with him subsequently resulted in the deaths of three little children, "Justice4Fathers" makes the following statement:

From: Justuce4Fathers 16/08/2004 9:46:15 PM
Subject: If 50/50 was ordered, would the kids be alive? post id: 147
of course they would.
when you make the children 'booty of war' then they are directly in the firing line.

Interesting to note that before the family court came into being, these cases were UNHEARD OF.

There are a lot of deaths on the family courts dorrstep, mothers, fathers and sadly children.

stop the evil NOW


Disrespect

Despite news reports at the time of the post clearly stating that the mother was cleared over the deaths of her three young sons being due to a faulty heater, a Senior user of the dads on air forum stated the following:

Aussie Firestorm
Snr. Registered User
Joined: 01 Jun 2004
Posts: 2126
Location: Newcastle, NSW
Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:25 am Post subject:
What is extremely concerning is the number of reports of mothers killing their children over the last 3 years.

For every one report I read about the father being the perpetrator, I read 3 or 4 where the perpertrator is the mother!

And who normally takes the children on seperation? The mother ... then children die.

When is the government going to wake up, reject feminist propaganda and protect the children from the main perpetrators of child homicide?


A face book page was started that continued with disinformation that the mother was responsible for the deaths even though she was cleared.

Devoid of Compassion

In an article by fathers4justice, commentary on Arthur freeman who has been charged for murder where over100 witnessed him throw his five year old daughter off Melbourne west gate bridge not only sympathised with Arthur Freeman, but also implied that the mother could have done something to stop it.

Yes, Arthur Freeman who must be in a living hell, not just stuck in jail for ever and a day, but having to live with the pain and negative emotions for all eternity, having did what he regrettably did, in the spur of the moment. Wrong place at the wrong time. The stress upon this poor father must have been horrendous for him to have performed such a thoughtless act. Most people who have been up against it with barbaric authorities know the immense pressure one can be under, and everyone knows, it only takes a second for a person to snap.


And then this...

The mother, who is also living a different type of hell must be regretting ever setting foot in a lawyer's office, let alone being induced into going to the Family Court. I'm sure in hindsight she would have done things different if it meant having her darling Darcey still with her.


The underlying tone here of course is if they resolved it out of court aka if the mother just submitted to all demands, then things would be somehow better.

Internet References:

Visibility, Responsibility and Identity in Domestic Murder-Suicide

4corners Forum

Dads on the Air Forum:

Gas leak killed boys at home, mother cleared

Facebook gossip upsets dead boys' family

Who is responsible for Darcey Freeman's Death?

Coroner Reform Welcomed By Rev Nile